When you want to talk about your experiences in life — the things you have or haven't done at some point before now — English uses the present perfect. The key idea is that the time doesn't matter: you're not saying when it happened, only that it happened (or didn't) at some moment in your life up to now.

Have you ever eaten octopus? I've been to Italy three times. She's never flown in a plane. None of these say when — and that's exactly the point.

Quick shortcut: present perfect = have / has + past participle. Use ever to mean "at any time" in questions about experience, never to say it hasn't happened.

How to form it

The present perfect has two parts: the helper verb have or has, plus the past participle of the main verb.

Subject have / has past participle
I / you / we / they have been, seen, eaten…
he / she / it has been, seen, eaten…
  • I have been to Paris.
  • She has seen that film.

In speaking and informal writing, have and has are usually shortened:

  • I've been… · You've seen… · He's eaten… · They've tried…

Note: He's can mean he is or he has — the past participle that follows (he's eaten) tells you it's has here.

The past participle

The past participle is the third form of a verb. For regular verbs it's just the -ed form — the same as the past simple:

  • work → worked, try → tried, visit → visited

For irregular verbs you have to learn it. Sometimes it's the same as the past simple, sometimes it's different:

Base Past simple Past participle
be was/were been
see saw seen
eat ate eaten
do did done
go went gone
have had had
meet met met

Many of these overlap with the verbs in Past simple: irregular verbs — learning both forms together saves time.

Asking about experience: ever

To ask whether someone has done something at any time in their life, put ever between the subject and the past participle:

  • Have you ever been to Asia?
  • Has she ever met him?

To answer, you usually use a short form:

  • Yes, I have. / No, I haven't.
  • Yes, she has. / No, she hasn't.

You don't normally put ever in the positive answer — it belongs in the question. ✅ Yes, I have., not ❌ Yes, I have ever. (You'll meet ever in positive sentences in other patterns later, such as the best film I've ever seen.)

Saying it never happened: never

Never means "at no time in someone's life, up to now". Notice that never is already negative, so the verb stays positive — you don't add not:

  • I've never eaten sushi.
  • I haven't never eaten sushi. (double negative)

You can also answer a question with a full never sentence:

  • Have you ever broken a bone? — No, I've never broken a bone.

Been or gone?

These two trip up almost every learner, so they're worth a moment. Both are used to talk about travel, but they tell a different story:

  • been to = went there and came back (an experience): I've been to London twice.
  • gone to = left for that place and is not back here now: She's gone to the shops. (she's out now)

For talking about experiences, you almost always want ✅ been, not ❌ gone: Have you ever been to Japan?

When to use it (and when not)

Use the present perfect for experience when the time is unimportant or unknown:

  • I've seen that film. (at some point — when doesn't matter)

But the moment you add a finished past timeyesterday, last year, in 2019, when I was ten — English switches to the past simple instead:

  • I saw that film last week. — not ❌ I've seen that film last week.

Unfinished time expressions like today, this week or this year can still go with the present perfect, because that period continues up to now: I've seen her today.

So ever / never experiences stay in the present perfect; once you pin down a finished time, use the past simple. For this A2 experience use, the rule is: no finished past time stated → present perfect; finished past time stated → past simple. Choosing between the two tenses across all their uses is explored fully in Present perfect vs past simple at B1.

Common mistakes

  • I have ever been to Spain. → ✅ I have been to Spain. (don't use ever in an ordinary positive experience statement)
  • I haven't never tried it. → ✅ I've never tried it. (never is already negative)
  • Have you ever went there? → ✅ Have you ever been there? (use the past participle been, not the past simple went)
  • She has gone to Rome twice. (meaning a past experience) → ✅ She has been to Rome twice.
  • I've seen him yesterday. → ✅ I saw him yesterday. (a definite past time needs the past simple)

Quick check

Choose the correct form:

  1. ____ you ever ____ (eat) Thai food?
  2. She's ____ (never) been abroad.
  3. We've ____ (be / go) to that restaurant before.
  4. They ____ (see) a play last night.
Show answers
  1. Haveeaten   2. never   3. been (experience — they came back)   4. saw (definite past time → past simple)

Key takeaways

  • Present perfect = have / has + past participle; use it for life experiences when the time isn't stated.
  • Use ever mainly in questions about experience; use never to make a negative experience statement — and never is already negative, so don't add not.
  • The past participle is -ed for regular verbs but must be learned for irregular ones (been, seen, eaten).
  • been to = went and came back (experience); gone to = left and is not back here now.
  • As soon as you name a finished past time (yesterday, last year), switch to the past simple.